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nobody struggles with anxiety there is a deeper issue

Nobody Struggles With Anxiety

I promise you that the title isn’t meant to be clickbait. Anxiety is a very real thing that we feel as human beings, and the Scriptures are replete with comforts and corrections for us in our worries. Rather what I mean by “nobody struggles with anxiety” is that an individual’s battle against anxiety is never a war against anxiety particularly. They may feel anxiety and that anxiety may produce a great deal of pain in their hearts, but anxiety is always a product of some greater issue. Continue reading Nobody Struggles With Anxiety

Depressed? Read Ephesians

Depressed? Take 6 Chapters of Ephesians and Call Me in the Morning

I hate depression. It saps my joy like a leach sucks out blood; it puts a weight on my heart that Hercules couldn’t lift; and it cripples me from accomplishing anything meaningful in life. Thankfully, God has promised that He has given us “all things that pertain to life and godliness” (2 Peter 1:3), and depression is not outside that promise. So we are going to look at some of the antidotes God has given us in the book of Ephesians that can bring healing and life back to our tired souls. Continue reading Depressed? Take 6 Chapters of Ephesians and Call Me in the Morning

There are many different ways to respond to despair

5 Responses to Despair

Every person must deal with the reality of despair at some point. Such a meeting is inevitable and comes upon all. No one is immune and no one can escape it, although we may try to delay our encounter with despair or deny its presence. Despair, as I shall use it, is the absence of hope. Despair can come from death, debilitating sickness or health conditions, frustration in life, failure, purposelessness, moral evil, guilt, shame, oppression or elsewhere. The source of despair does not matter so much for our discussion as the reality of it. It has the power to destroy a person or, ironically, to lead them to life.

What I shall outline below is what I have observed about people. People can be sorted into five categories based on their response to despair. It is informed by scripture and, as far as I know, is pretty comprehensive. Some people may live in and utilize more than one of these categories. Some people are pushed into one category quite against their will, others slide into a category as a recourse against the inevitable result of despair, death. Some people will begin in one category to die in another. The five human responses to despair are: Continue reading 5 Responses to Despair

Grief and depression

Reclaiming Godly Grief

When you think about the life of Jesus, Paul and Jeremiah and David and the Psalmists what do you see? Do you see a group of well-content men who soaked up life and all it has to offer? Do you see a group of men who “lived life to the fullest,” and savored every moment? Or do you see a group of men whose trademark is suffering?

Friend, reread some of these verses:

Rom 9:1-3:

“I speak the truth in Christ—I am not lying, my conscience confirms it through the Holy Spirit—I have great sorrow and unceasing anguish in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were cursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my people, those of my own race,”
Notice Paul has to preface his statement with a declaration of truth. “I speak the truth… I am not lying.” Paul had to prepare his readers for what he was just about to tell them.

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